Saturday, September 5, 2009

rejection

Don't ever let the fear of rejection keep you from loving. And I'm proud of YOU for not letting that happen... but something... something different happened. Something you didn't expect.

He rejected you.

I can tell you that I know exactly how you feel. It's happened to me before. And I can also tell you that it's not the best feeling in the world.

You feel useless....worthless...like you don't matter...like you're not loved...like nobody likes you.

Then questions haunt you like, "why didn't he like me? I'm ugly, aren't I? I'm not beautiful. I'm not pretty." You wonder why he doesn't like you. "Did somebody tell him something about me? I can't believe the cutest guy just rejected me."

It's hard to cope with.

Hannah, you are beautiful. Honestly, you are. I am proud of you for not backing away and telling this boy your true feelings. You were rejected out of one boys life.... but you'll never be rejected out of mine. And a lot of other people.

One day, you're going to meet the boy of your dreams that loves you for you. That will love you back. Trust me, you will.

That's the reason why God created everything two. Two ears. Two hands. Two eyes. Then, he created only one heart for each person. Because there's another heart out there just for you.

I love you. :)

-Hiba

5 comments:

  1. hiba,
    thank you. its probably going to take a while, everything seems to be a reminder, but just hearing this spoken directly to me just makes some of the pain go away.

    i will always remember from now on, that even if rejection or gossip comes my way, that there is always someone out there, even if they are in a whole different state, that knows what its like & relate in that way.

    xx hannah

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  2. " When you love someone and they break your heart, don't give up on love, have faith restart." - said so by the most amazing people, JB

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  3. thank you retta. that kept me through, to tell the truth.

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  4. No worries, glad to have helped :)

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  5. That's the reason why God created everything two. Two ears. Two hands. Two eyes. Then, he created only one heart for each person. Because there's another heart out there just for you.


    oh my god. thats so true. never thought of it like that :)

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